Planning a wedding at the Derrynane is a long, happy process and we promise to make it the easy part of your year. Here is roughly how it works.
Step 1 — Get in touch
Email or call us with your rough date(s) and guest numbers. Within a day or two you will have a personalised proposal back from our wedding coordinator with availability, package options and indicative costs.
Step 2 — A site visit
We strongly recommend an in-person visit before you commit. Come and see the dining room, the deck, the front lawn, the ceremony spaces and a couple of the rooms. Have a meal in the restaurant. We can lay out the dining room in your proposed layout if it helps you picture it.
Step 3 — Sign and deposit
A signed agreement and a deposit secures your date. We will then introduce you to the named coordinator who will be your single point of contact from now until the morning after the wedding.
Step 4 — The slower months
Most of the heavy planning lives in the six months before the wedding. Menu choices and tasting; bedroom block management; supplier introductions (florist, photographer, music); civil-ceremony paperwork if you are getting married on-site.
Step 5 — The week of
Final headcount confirmed 7 days before. Welcome event (often in the bar) the night before. We do the rest.
Step 6 — The day itself
You enjoy your wedding. We worry about everything else.
A note on exclusivity
For weddings of 60+ guests it is usually possible to take exclusive use of the hotel and all 70 bedrooms — meaning your entire guest list stays on-site. Ask your coordinator about exclusive-use availability on your date.


